Maulana Wahiduddin Khan
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Don't Be Angry Culture January 15, 2012

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Muwatta Imam Malik, Hadith No. 1891
Introducing the Don't Be Angry culture concept
“Aaj ka title hai: la taghdab culture”
Muwatta Imam Malik, Hadith No. 1891
Origin story of the Don't Be Angry hadith
“Ek riwayat mein aata hai ke ek sahabi Rasoolullah ke paas aaye”
Quran 42:37 · Ash-Shura
Quran verse: believers forgive instead of returning anger
“Wa iza ma ghadibu hum yaghfirun”
Quran 3:134 · Aal-Imran
“na dalen. isi liye Quran mein doosri aayat hai ke "wal kazibeen al ghiza wala yafina an al nas" . yaani yeh nahi farmaya ke "wal fakedin al ghiza" .”
Shu'ab al-Iman by Al-Baihaqi, Hadith no. 8294
“to aik hadith mein is ka jawab mila mujhe. woh hadith al-baiqi mein aayi hai, is ke alfaaz yeh hain: "in al-ghadab la yashhad al-iman" .”
Quran 21:87 · Al-Anbiya
Prophet Yunus's anger and the lesson of lost right thinking
“Hazrat Yunus alaihissalam Nainawa mein dawat dene bheje gaye the”
Maarifat Al-Sahaba by Abu Nu'aim, Athar No. 1536
Two companions collide, anger turns to apology and self-blame
“Ek sahabi the Madine ke bahar ke, jinhone Islam qubool kiya”
Sunan Abu Dawud, Hadith No. 4896
Abu Bakr insulted, angels leave when he answers back
“Ek baar Madine ke bahar ek aadmi mila Hazrat Abu Bakr ko”
Sunan Abu Dawud, Hadith No. 7219
True strength is controlling anger, not wrestling
“Taqatwar wo nahi jo ladai mein pachhaar de”
Sahih al-Bukhari, Hadith no. 4622
“to Rasool Allah ne kaha ke nahi. Nahi. To aap ne yahi farmaya ke log yeh kahenge ke Islam thought crime mein believe karta hai.”
Al-Nawadir Al-Sultaniyah by Bahauddin Ibn Shaddad, p. 129
Salahuddin Ayyubi's missed chance to bear witness over revenge
“Salahuddin Ayyubi ka ek waqia aata hai tareekh ki kitabon mein”
Al-Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah, Hadith No. 12363
Salahuddin Ayyubi's missed chance to bear witness over revenge
“Salahuddin Ayyubi ka ek waqia aata hai tareekh ki kitabon mein”
Quran 18:110 · Al-Kahf
Salahuddin Ayyubi's missed chance to bear witness over revenge
“Salahuddin Ayyubi ka ek waqia aata hai tareekh ki kitabon mein”
Musnad Ahmad, Hadith No. 17985
Anger comes from Satan; the prescribed dua
“Ghussa jo hai, wo al-ghadab minash-shaitan”
Musnad Ib Abi Shaybah, Hadith No. 2482 Shu'ab al-Iman by Al-Baihaqi, Hadith no. 8294
Anger comes from Satan; the prescribed dua
“Ghussa jo hai, wo al-ghadab minash-shaitan”
Sahih Muslim, Hadith No. 2593
Hadith: God rewards gentleness, not violence
“Innallaha ya'ti ar-rifqa ma la yu'ti al-unf”
Quran 4:128 · An-Nisa
Hadith: God rewards gentleness, not violence
“Innallaha ya'ti ar-rifqa ma la yu'ti al-unf”
Quran 4:59 · An-Nisa
“Aatu Allah wa Aatu al-Rasool yeh”
Quran 3:31 · Aal-Imran
“saaf saaf hai. to kaise aap ek ko mante hue ek chhodenge? ek ko Quran mein yeh bhi hai ke 'Qul in kuntum tuhibbun Allah fa-ittabi'uni yuhbibkum Allah' yani hubb-e-ilahi ka meyar bataiye ke tum Rasool Allah ki it'aat karo.”
Quran 42:30 · Ash-Shura
Blaming others instead of owning your own mistakes
“Har aadmi apne kiye ko bhugatta hai”
Quran 48:26 · Al-Fath
Religious honor culture is pre-Islamic ignorance, not Islam
“Deeni ghairat koi cheez nahi hai, nothing hai Islam mein”
Quran 15:32 · Al-Hijr
“saare aspects. sab se pehle kis ne yeh kaam kiya hai? shaitan ne ke Allah ke khilaf naoozubillah bola. woh”
Quran 94:5 · Ash-Sharh
Law of nature: every problem hides an opportunity
“Zindagi ki misal aisi hai jaise gulab ka phool”
Quran 25:52 · Al-Furqan
The real meaning of jihad is struggle, not warfare
“Jihad ka mani koshish hai, qatal nahi”